Monday, August 11, 2008

Expect the Unexpected

Do you believe in the saying "Expect the Unexpected"?

On my opinion, it is not bad to have expectations but sometimes it is still better not to expect anything especially expect something from anyone. Sometimes those things that we do not expect just happens to us.

What is the advantage of having expectations?
When you expect of something and think of it for a couple of times, you began to attract the thought of it. "Thought becomes things"~ The Secret

What is the disadvantage of having expectations?
Too much expectations may lead to disappointment when the outcome does not meet your expectations.

Expectation from yourself
- Needs your own effort to fulfill it. "When it fails, there's no one to be blame other than you"

Expectation from others
- Requires other people to your needs. Note: "You must not promise anything to a person when you are not sure of it"

Still it is you who will decide for yourself. You are the one who has the ability to fulfill whatever goals and expectations you have. You must not be dependent to others. If you think you are on the wrong path, make your move! :)

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